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Are You Tying the Knot for the Second (or third) Time?

Posted by Carrie Rattle on Dec 19, 2018 5:19:35 PM

“I wish I discussed finances before I got married last time.” Sound familiar?

Did you know past statistics have shown that in the U.S. approximately 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce?* Not surprisingly, a major cause of divorce in marriages is money. *

 You’ve found that special someone (again) but, you’re still trying to figure out how you talk about the “M” word without ruining the romance. You know it's smart to work together, but where do you start? Building a solid foundation of communication and partnership around managing your money is crucial to lifelong intimacy, trust, and success in a marriage. 

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Topics: personal finance, money anxiety, divorce and finances, marriage

Help Loved Ones by Putting Money Self-care on Your List

Posted by Carrie Rattle on Sep 10, 2018 9:00:00 AM

 

Sometimes my clients move appointments further out this time of year. When the sun is shining, barbecues are scheduled, and summer camp is around the corner, life is a flurry of activity. There is hope and warmth and fun. Money has traditionally been last on their list, falling behind TV re-reruns and cleaning out the garage.

Any reason is valid to avoid the shame, fear, or embarrassment that arises around money. We choose to live with the underlying hum of money anxiety rather than confront it in the open. 

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Topics: personal finance, savings, money anxiety, fear of money, money selfcare, reduce debt

How Fear Clouds Reality

Posted by Carrie Rattle on Sep 4, 2018 11:01:00 AM

My clients are terrific. They are all unique with their own special gifts and ways of looking at the world. I learn something from each of them. And yet, the way they feel when they first come to me is so incredibly heartbreaking….and unnecessary.It takes incredible courage to admit that their financial situation isn’t where they’d like it to be, and to bear their souls about the inner most secrets of their financial lives. Just that alone is enough for me to want to wrap my arms around them and protect them from further hurt.

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Topics: divorce, anxiety, money anxiety, fear of money, fear

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